Corrective Notions


When the past virtual events hold through my mind, I couldn’t resist myself from breaking into an extensive path of some bitter experiences in life. Within this 19 years of my life journey with my parents, I had strangely faced a number of coincidental lackluster which hurts my heart to an extreme level of challenges that a teenager could face. May be you would have played farce roles in your life as well! I firmly believe in this nature’s rule that,

“Behind every challenge you would face in life, there always exists a new lesson to acquire for a better future”

This can be considered as a mental melodrama we could play in our own life. But the contrast we may feel about this ‘’Happy-Go-Lucky Rule”* while putting into practice is, “Will this WORK OR NOT?” Actually the contrast which I mentioned above is still hidden under this query and it can be revealed only after specifying the answer though! You just guess what will be the answer if I chuck this query in front of you? If my prediction goes right in this aspect, most of you will approach me with a BIG NO! If it’s a NO, what’s the reason behind it? Is it cause of your fear of doing a challenging activity? Why can’t you face life with this kind of garbled remorse?

When I was a kid, my mom used to teach me the childhood lessons without following any cryptic way. It was all because of her determination and faith in her son, Rahul Ashok is still alive and being in contact with you all. Isn’t it? As a kid, I must do naughty stuffs and pranks of doughty fetters when I was with her. If a mom would bear such challenges from his son, why couldn’t we curtail and take action against some lively challenges in life? It doesn’t mean that you must have to sit/stand simply while feeding a hooked challenge which you’re supposed to face. But you shouldn’t be blind or dumb in facing a challenge.In which all areas we are facing oppositions of frailty of implacable rattling? Family, relationships, work, personal, financial, health and what not. We’re surrounded by problems in all those above mentioned streams, huh? Most of us haven’t done anything bad, try and lead a good life, yet we’re the ones who’ve maximum problems? Why? Ever thought why do we have unending problems in life? I had heard once from mom that, “Problems are the ‘ after effects ‘ of the bad deeds which we have done in our past lives as well as in this life…. Every organism on earth has to go through this…no one can escape this fact! God isn’t trying to get any benefit from any one. But for the transfer of benefits to us, he must have to test us ya know? If you do good deeds in this life you will reap the benefits in this as well as in the next life. There is no permanent solution to problems but we can reduce their effects to a great extent with the help of prayer and positive attitude in life.” Well, I can’t agree with her totally as her concepts do belonging to astrology and divinity related matters. As you all know I’m not a strong believer of God and regular temple or church visitor. For me, God is someone who controls the whole world for its better sustenance, peace, equality and all between the living things and non living things.

We’re living in a century where brutal acts against women and child, terrorism, war fights, poverty.. etc… etc… are recurring as a part of indecent formations of human beings. If God is there to save us from this trenchant burns, why do we still live in a community of that sort? I think that’s why we do usually call our journey in this revolving planet as LIFE. When things are good, LIFE is good. When things are bad, we just want to bang our heads somewhere. We humans tend to make mistakes in the choices and actions that we take or choose in this lively journey. Problems have been building resistance in overcoming difficulties in life. We must have to overcome them with will power, confidence and learn new chapters from it. It’s just like when we were KIDS, tried to walk but fell down countless times. Look at yourself now! A PROBLEM is only a CHALLENGE if we viewed negatively. Yes, some things are horrible, we wouldn’t wish them to face in life, but if we learn from these problems and find solutions, then we can rejoice as a trend-setter while facing problems at its worst level, not a human being who is going to succumb. The ability to solve problems or learn from them is what has kept humanity even now. Go ahead and face the problems with much courage. Feel the difference and enjoy every moment in life. 


Thanks,
Rahul

A Volition for Love: Part 3!

Note:  

             *APOLOGIES FOR THE DELAYED UPDATE OF THIS SERIES*

Most of you would think why this teenage guy usually starts his sub-parted stories or prose by subtending with kinda notes at the beginning of the post for the delay in updating a specific series. The reason behind this delay includes some substantive reasons I guess. First of all, I’m fed up with the Microsoft Word application installed in my lappy, which was totally outdated in comparing with the currently available version. I used to save my writing documents on this outdated version of MW and ‘HE’ sunders up when I open the file later. Since I was little busy on last week with some ailing “INTERNALS” schedules for my PARENTS sake, unable to have frequent opening of my closest LAPPY on this exam days. Another reason for the delayed updates was cause of my BROAD BAND connection! Even though I had paid the net billed amount for this month before the due date, because of the INCONVENIENCE did by a wrongdoer at the retailer shop, my connection got CANCELLED by the network provider and it was recovered by the beginning of this week only. Now here comes the most prominent EXCUSE! Whatever the reason it was, the ONE and ONLY person responsible for the overbalanced sessions or absence during these days over here was ‘I’ itself. NO MORE APOLOGIES and SORRIES, since an ‘ABSENCE’ is ONE among the etiolated ‘EXCUSE’ at times in human life I guess. Hope you would forgive me with a consideration that, this guy is a TEENAGER of INERT reasons. LOL. 😀

Here is the 3rd part of my short story series, “A Volition for Love”. Hope you’ll enjoy reading it and encourage me in the same way as you did before.
PS: You’re most welcome with the NEGATIVES on my posts too. I would be glad to hear you either through comments or the mail-up option which is available for you here.

Those who haven’t read the other 2 parts can check it out here:

* A Volition for Love: Part 1!

* A Volition for Love: Part 2!

Mike had just 2 hours of nap on that occult night, since his mind was totally obtruded about her thoughts and visualizations which were some puckish objections for him.

“Being having an affection or crush over SOMEONE (he/she) will definitely spare your sleeping schedules at least 2 or 3 times/week”

He wakes up as earlier as possible on that day morning and engaged in writing an apology letter for his behaviour toward her on last day. The letter was too short with a script,

Hey Sweet heart,

I truly care and love you loads with my kind heart, my Angel! You can’t puff me with the innocent snugly walk in besides me anymore. The opponent for you on this WAR of LOVE is a guy, who can’t typify him without you in his life on this living world. The one and only SOUL and WISDOM for him is YOU! I LOVE YOU SO MUCH……..

Yours lovingly
Mike.

He kept on changing the contents and finally decided to give this letter to her and went to college 1 and half hours before Mike usually leaves from home and waits in front of the college gate on his two-wheeler for her arrival. Time passed like a ghastly moving train and it had finally ends up with the ringing up of bell for the 2nd hour class session. Mike woke up from a little doze he had on his bike and suddenly came to seen one of his mate in front of him, who kicked him up from his short nap.

CM: Hey Mike! Did you hear that tragic incident happened for one of our college mate on last night?

Mike: Eeeeey! Please do forgive me, dude. I’m not in a mood to hear any culminating story right now. Better pass this news to some “BBC news reporters” like Jessica or someone in our college. They will definitely help you to give an apt publicity for this damn hell news.

CM: I’m sorry! This one is a defiled tragic accident I had ever heard about, Mike. Bit mystery and sensational incident happened recently in our area. So I thought of sharing it with you. If you’re not interested to hear, let me leave that topic. Its okay, Mike.

Mike: Oh! Thanks a TON, mate. Carry on with your work for spreading this abandoned information and make it WORST as far as you can. Will you please stop this cunning conversation with me? I have already told you!

CM: Hey! You look so STRANGE today. Anyway I’m going. Wish to see you in a good mood soon, man. Have a good day ahead. Bye. Take care.

Mike: Thank you so much for your high-born WISH, mate!

 

Mike waited there for half an hour more, but nothing what he expected had happened. So he went back home with a tiresome mind and have durable sleep till the insatiable evening.

“Damn HELL! Mom, give me a cup of hot tea or coffee soon. I’m feeling sort of abhorrent complicated PAIN inside my brain”, he shouted at Mom in the kitchen from his room after having a countable abridged nap. Mike took the phone which was kept besides his pillow and checked it for the outdated messages that he had received during the sleeping hours.

Slides and unlocks the keypad of the mobile and have seen the notification for 4 messages and 1 missed call he had received. Opened the messages and found that, 3 of them were service texts and the remaining one was from his college mate, Norman. He opened the text message and read it:

“Hey Mike! Why didn’t you come to college today? We had classes only till noon and freaked out in the city after that. :D”

Mike was in a good accord with that instant and he suddenly replied back to received text.

“Hahahah! Classes only till after-noon? It seems that strange things had happened out there in our college and I really missed it. LOL.” 😀

Norman: Hahaha! Yeah yeah. One among the college mate met with an accident on today early morning. She got seriously injured and passed away in the morning itself. Whatever the reason it was, we had blasted the whole after-noon all because of this gal’s way to heaven. May her soul RIP. Amen…! Hahahahaha.

Mike:  Oh, yeah! Someone had already told this in the morning and I hadn’t asked much about it though. Did you know that gal personally? Who is she?

Norman: I don’t even remember her name at least! 😀 It’s Catherine or something similar to that name’s dialect. What’s the purpose behind in knowing about a strange gal, whom I haven’t seen yet?

Mike: Hahah! Okay. Leave it, buddy. I’m gonna take a shower right now. Will text you later. Bye. Take care.

Mike was expected for SOMETHING he wished to hear about Catherine and nothing special had happened on that night too. Her mobile was still SWITCHED OFF! But he was forced to face an UNEXPECTED at college on the very next day!

* To be continued…..

This is what actually the TWIST I have added to this story series. Wait for the remaining ONE and ONLY part, which will be updated soon on this space.

FINGERS CROSSED!\m/

PS: I know that most of you can already IMAGINE about the twist which is going to happen for Mike at college on the next day! Feel free to share the idea that comes from your mind if you can. I hereby PROMISE and DECLARE that, I won’t make any change for the script of the 4th part of this series after haring you, which is still under process. \FINGERS CROSSED/

Have a great weekend ahead, folks! Cheers to you all.\m/ 😀

Xoxo…!

Thanks,
Rahul

Engineering Spur

When I’m in for Engineering class schedules at college,

My mind vanishes off for being inside something STRANGE.

Is this what we commonly termed as LECTURES?

I’m walking around the corners of this disguising path,

Where there is a hopeful TARGET for my parent’s sake is inside me.

There isn’t much effort required for its completion,

But the extra HARD besides WORK, transforms it into a detestable state.

It’s still unknown for me about my absence in a delightful world,

That includes streams of personal concerns and interests.

                   Thanks,
                    Rahul

Unaccustomed Relationship

Disclaimer: All the characters appearing in this work are fictitious. Any resemblance to real persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental. 😀 😛

It was his first day at Degree College, where a bunch of freakish guys and young good-looking gals were waiting at the common visitor’s room for their names to be called by the attendant, who is a fatty middle-aged man. Since the Principle of the College wasn’t able to reach there by the exact scheduled time for admission procedures, most of them start aiming simply here and there for long. Some of them had a keen look on their mobile phones for texting or browsing related activities and parents besides them was eagerly waiting for the arrival of the Head of the Institute. Few of the young-looking teenage guys were in hurry for making contacts with the new beautiful girls, with whom they are gonna have some progressive changes at –least in the days coming by the way. 😉 Suddenly our hero, Ram came into the scene with a convenient attitude as he knows that, most of them sitting out there were in an inclement mood. He couldn’t resist his mischievous and rough character, so that he starts shouting at the attendant for delay in starting the admission procedures. It was during that instant, one among the guardian (who can’t control his temper) of a gal sitting near to him rises ahead and joined with this guy for the compatible objections against the authority. Actually, if that condition worsens further, definitely Ram would go for the lick against that fatty college staff. But the moment when he saw that gal, who sat behind her Papa leads to the fall of a lovely ripple on his heart. Even though, the ratty talks goes in between her dad and the staff member, Ram was in a forlorn situation where he can’t spell or take a step ahead in-front of her. It was his first ablaze crush met by him on a gal. She looks to be having a good attitude, character and the most important reason for his crush over her was the silence and shyness of that beautiful angel itself. Finally, the Principle came after a prolonged intricate conditions, which was going over there. Without much delay, they begins the admission related procedures and the mental destruction happens for Ram became highly obscene after sometime. He was INSANE enough for being a part of her in his whole life within that short span of time. The most interesting interjection was his instructional make-ups of life regarding that angel, who is still personally unknown for him. But his determination and thoughts about her leads up to the level of getting married and he interjects those dreams while thinking about her dad. Anyway, both of them earned their confirmation pass for the administration related department course on that same day and left with a symbolic return to their new college.


The innovative academic year begins within 2 weeks by the end of admission related procedures. It was by the 17th day of our hero’s day at college, he had an adjustable talk with our heroine when she was on her way back to home. He was a regular follower of her by the end of evening class sessions though.

He: “Hello! I guess you have completed your schooling at Bhavans( a prominent school in Kerala), uh? 😛 (Just to have a start-up talk with her, he begins with that musty query)

She: Nope, I was a Choician (Another school from Kerala).

He: Oho! Okay. I had seen a junior gal of your appearance at Bhavans during my +2 grade level and just mentioned it with you. 😛 😀 Anyway, I’m Ram from Kochi. And you?


She: I’m Namitha from Kochi itself. May I ask you a query, which has a prominent relevance in the current situation?

He: Eh? Excuse me! I didn’t get you. What do you mean?

She: Are you kidding me? I know what kind of relationship you are actually expecting from me.

He: Means?

She: Hey! Do you want to date me?

He: I……! I’m……… (He can’t even have a normal breath after hearing this soaked response from her)

She: Hey, I’m seriously asking you! Do you have any sort of mentality like that to me?

He: Umhhh…! Shall we have a cup of tea from the canteen please?

She: Haha! Why not? Come on dude! 😀

[They came to college canteen and she ordered 2 cups of tea, since Ram was in dreary mood to speak something.]


She: Hey Ram! You didn’t tell me. I don’t have enough time to spare out here. It’s already late now. I have to go back to home soon.

He: Okay! I’m also not interested in continuing this rubbish flirting talks in between us. In fact, I’m truly in love with you, Namitha. I know each and everything about you by observing you for all these days and couldn’t resist myself being without you in my life. This is not just an infatuation, but something which can be comparable with a true love. Trust me dear. 🙂

She: I can understand your feelings, dude! But this is all because of your present age, Ram. Let me think about it in detail and will give you my response as soon as possible. Don’t feel bad even if my response is a negative one for you. Okay?

He: Yeah, take your-own time, Namitha. Don’t hesitate to tell me, even if the response is a negative one.

She: Yeah, sure!


The twist that happens later on their story was, she gives a positive response to our hero and he dated her for the whole 3 years of college life. Later, they got married too. It was after the marriage, some fluctuations stares at their life as some sort of inferiority complexes and voids on their gregarious conditions. And someway, it finally ends up with a divorce though.


“We will not able to love or care about anymore all because of the reason that, our personalities and nature are extremely indifferent to each other”, a wacky explanation from both of them.

This is one among the major harsh fact for those who shifts their dating to a relationship or marriage scheme. This is just a tale, which reveals the rustles aspects in a dating, which gets converted to a  life-time relationships. I couldn’t say that, love marriage is always a failure. Exceptions would be there, but still I have seen a number of my unexpected pals who fell into “Dating–>Marriage” relationship and finally ended up with a break-up (Divorce). The same aspects are occurring in arranged marriages too. But it will be in a different way through reputation, wealth, vocation and all of a family. As the person is supposed to marry a gal will be chosen by his beloved parents or relatives on the basis of culture, background or profession only. Hence, there would occur some mismatches which is a quite natural problem that has to be healed up in arranged marriage nominal.

According to my personal views, whether it’s love or arranged marriage; one must care, support and love his/her partner in the whole-life time with all the incrustations in WEALTH. Wealth in life does not means money or some happy moments only. Life is such a wide journey, where every-one have/has to face some variety of challenges which includes sorrows and irrelevant solvable problems though. What actually matters in a relationship are mutual understandings, adjustments, faith and mutual-trust on each-other. But today, a marriage is something which can be comparable with an INCOMPLETE ungainliness. We are living in a highly individualistic society, where couples are thrown in each other’s company far rather than having close contacts in between them. So a change is must for the better partnership for both these genders in a common relationship.But still, if our instincts is unable to tell us whom would be the right partner, then what could be the situation? We don’t want to leave it to chance. So we try to ensure that the partner is suitable. That’s why we usually try to choose someone with the same interests similar to us, someone from a similar background, someone with the same values, someone with whom have a lot on common. Will that be an apt choice? Anyway, let me conclude this topic with a brilliant quote about ‘RELATIONSHIP’ by one among the world-renowned romantic fiction writer. 🙂

“Happiness in marriage is entirely a matter of chance. If the dispositions of the parties are ever so well-known to each other or ever so similar beforehand, it does not advance their felicity in the least. They always continue to grow sufficiently unlike afterwards to have their share of vexation; and it is better to know as little as possible of the defects of the person with whom you are to pass your life.”
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   Jane Austen

This post has been published in response to “Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage” contest by Indiblogger and Sony Entertainment Television (www.facebook.com/LoveYaArrange). Also you can vote for me here. 🙂

Image credits: Google.

Thanks,
Rahul

Auxiliary Incrustation

Lapsing through the wonders in life always serves him sensational images;

And multi-lateral approaches through the glimpse of fallacious thoughts.

He used to have keen looks around the dreary mid-night stars;

Hate himself for being inside in class for long schedules;

Keeps on having regular chats with the dear one’s;

Supports his dear one’s for what-ever they do or did,

Whether it’s right or wrong.

Sometimes he may be an arrogant or rough or strident or a flamboyant guy,

Which actually depends on the mood and conditions he follows.

He mayn’t be a lovable son for his parents;

But a crazy minded teen for themselves.

Experiences and unlikely moments helps him to yelp and smile;

At least for the sake of his near-one’s.

This is what he focuses through his own short span of life in this wide world;

Where he is still not young enough to know everything. 

                    Thanks,
                     Rahul