Expeditious Relationship!

She stares at me for the first time,

That hits my heart like a bruising spatula.

The reason behind this keen look,

Would be just some dainty misunderstandings she has on me.

But it did not  hurts or provokes me,

Through the words of fire over her.

I’m so much lucky enough to have a partner like her,

Who has a sovereign equality with me.

She will always be there within me,

Whether there is happiness or sadness appears in our life.

It’s all because of her,

I’m being in this world to capture the snaps of real life.

                    Thanks,
                     Rahul

My Beloved Heart!

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She came from the flimsy beauty of agile,

That strikes in to my heart through fragrant exquisite of lurid smiles.

I always used to see her stunning beauty through the void,

When she lurks her peaceful shawl off.

I accepts her as a gal that she is,

And that I do not wish to change her into someone else.

I do not expect perfection from her,

Just as she do not expect it from me.

I will love and stand nearby her, even through the worst conditions.

I know the deepest secrets and do not judge her for them,

Still asking in return only that she do not judge me for mine. 

I cares her enough to fight for,

What we have in those memorable days.

 Thinking of you, dreaming of you, wanting and needing you constantly,

And hoping that you feel the same way for me.

Photo credits: Thattathin Marayath movie.

Thanks,
Rahul 

Why?



‘Why…?’ is a question that should be asked to yourself more than to others, when it comes to relationships. Actually, being from single to a relationship will always favor such kind of questions in between the partners I guess. It will be “She“, who has much more thoughts about the other in comparing with “him” though. Why does he behave so to me, why not to the other, why he seems to escape from me and such questions have more stronger answers within yourself than in him. I feel that in certain relationships one suffocates the other and derives the pleasure of possessing. Possessing in the sense, he should by mine ONLY! And if the other tries to free up, there will be more strangling with so many “Why’s“. Sometimes we don’t try to imagine the least about the hell that the other might be going through, when still you got the replies in between. When you should be happy with those responses that you had got, you tend to complain about what you hadn’t?? LOL. 😀 😛 . You question about why he is on Facebook or any other social circle , when she ‘is supposed’ to keep responding to you. Why? Ask yourself. And then your next question would be ‘why he doesn’t tell his problems to me?? :P. This question too is a kind of asserting, that I should know everything about you. It is the other who should choose, the other who has to give response with full heart, the other who has to hear your complaints while he struggles to get to you once he feels at least a bit mentally free. 

“Love and friendship isn’t about suffocation, but about setting free and seeing her happiness and gratitude in her freedom in space. That’s all for now from me, this other ‘he’… “

Now, let me tell you about the Insights I own about this ‘Whys’ in between partners! :). I’m gonna name these two partners or lovers as ‘needy‘ and ‘deserved‘! 😀 . The two terms ‘needy’ and ‘deserved’ have so much in common and so much in contrast between each other. As we search for word meaning of these two terms, ‘needy’ is “wanting or needing affection, attention, or reassurance, especially to an excessive degree” while the ‘deserved’ is “to be worthy of the merit“. ‘Needy’ is all about the cries while ‘deserved’ is more about ‘merit in silence‘. In life, when it comes to relationships, the main fault that we commit is the known/unknown ignorance in the proper application of the terms. We just confuse, scramble and get twisted. Just think, you call or message the ‘needy’ ones mostly, when the ‘deserved’ waits for you without demanding. Sometimes you even go for wrong options when you have to pay for a lifetime. For a light example, there will be a lot of love proposals for a girl, when the majority will be needy and a very small minority will be the deserved ones. But what happens the most is opting for the needy, while the deserved walks back. The needy will always cry, demand and seek attention, while the deserved waits. Have a careful selection between them in each of your steps in life. Practice it so well, so that it becomes an unconscious act of yourself. Most importantly, try to be not a ‘needy’, but a ‘deserved’ creature for yourself and for others.
 

“There are dimensions for these two terms and the applicability. Try thinking and challenge your thoughts! The terms are actually needy and deserved, in all ways! ;).”

Thanks,
Rahul