Why can’t a girl and a boy be best friends forever?

Your answers can be any one among the given 3 options:

a) Why can't a gal and a boy be best friends forever?

Why can't a gal and a boy be best friends forever?c)
Why can't a gal and a boy be best friends forever?I wish, this is really an interesting topic to discuss about for all of us. Let me know about the reasons behind your preferred options too, Fellas!! Have a good day. God bless. Cheers.\m/ xoxo


The Salty GUSTO!

That was a pathetic morning visit for him. It was on that morning wedding ceremony of his pal, an unexpected thing happened in his life ever!  He was supposed to see a gal, who has an outstanding attitude in her talks and opaqueness in her beauty! Most weird fact about her was that, she was his childhood best friend (but he didn’t talked much with her after that)! The whole crowd over there were aiming at this rarely cute looking beauty. He was so normal cum a common life leading man though. But this guy outright his unsolicited feelings over this gal. “I need her….”– it beeps like an alarm inside in his heart for the past few years. So finally he decides to offer a coffee for her after the marriage party with his restive cogitation to propose her. 😛

Finally, at the end of the party, he invited her to have coffee with him. He was in a vagary way of thoughts and starts shivering and sweating after having a look at her face. Since he approached her in a well polite manner, she agrees with that deal with out much offends. They went out to a near by Coffee House after the party and were welcomed by the empty bamboo chairs placed in the open meadow. They sat in two chairs facing opposite to each other and ordered 2 special coffees. He don’t know anything in detail about proposing a gal and what to ask  her? The only thing he was having at that moment is some anxious thoughts about his unknown(now) childhood best pal. LOL. :D.He was simply targeting at her with his partially red looking eyes and a sipped on coffee cup in between . After a while, she felt some mud headedness and felt uncomfortable to be with him. They were there for more than half an hour though! “Will you please let me go? It’s already late now!”- she told him. Suddenly he called the waiter, “Will you give me some salt please? I’d like to put it in my coffee.” After hearing this order, waiter stared at him! So strange to hear no? Waiter came back with a casket containing salt and payed back to him with in short time. His face turned weird, but still, he put the salt in his coffee and drank it. She was so much excited to see all this and with much curiosity she asked him, “Hey, what’s wrong with you? Is this the way you are taking coffee?” . He replied, “I’m actually a guy who was born and brought up in an oceanic region you know. I likes playing in the sea from my childhood onwards. Hence I could feel the taste of the sea, which is just like the taste of this salty coffee. “Whenever I have this salty drink in my hands, I always think of my childhood, hometown, friends and all over there. I’m really missing my hometown and parents who are still living there.” -While saying this, his eyes starts filling with tears. She gets deeply touched after hearing this. “That would be a man’s retracting and true feeling from the bottom of his heart”-she thought. If a man, who can tell about his homesickness, then he must be a person who loves his home, responsibilities and cares about parents… Later she also started to spoke about her own childhood, family and all as he did. 🙂

This beautiful unexpected coffee talk leads to the beginning of their story too! Later, they continued to date. She found that, actually he was a man who meets all her demands; he had tolerance, was kind hearted, warm, careful. He was such a good person she owned in her through out life! It was all because of his salty coffee imbibed him to her heart. Then it was just like every love story, the princess(she) gets married with the prince(he), and then they lived in happy and joyful life for years with their kid… Whenever she made coffee for him, used to put some salt in the coffee, as she knew that it’s the usual habit of taking coffee by her husband. 🙂 🙂

After 40 years of inveterate life, he passed away! Later, once she found a letter from the cupboard, which was left for her by that lovely husband.

“My dear sweetheart,

Please forgive me! Forgive my whole life’s lie to you dear! This was the only lie I told to you ever in our life—The Salty Coffee. Remember the first time when we dated? I was so nervous at that time during our coffee talk. Actually, I wanted some sugar instead of this opposite salty taste. It was hard for me to change in-front of you. So I just went ahead. I never thought, that it could be the start of our syrupy communication! I have tried to tell you the truth many times during the days I spent with you. But I was very afraid to do so, as I have promised not to lie to you for anything… Now I’m dying and telling you this fact at least now. I don’t like the salty coffee, which I usually took during my days with you, even I HATE IT always while drinking… But I had a reason for taking this salty coffee in my whole life ! Since I knew you, I never feel sorry for anything I do for you. Having you with me is my biggest happiness for my whole life. If I can live for the second time, still want to know you and have you for my whole life, even though I have to drink the salty coffee again.”

Her tears made the letter totally wet. Someday, someone asked her, “What’s the taste of salty coffee?” She replied, “It’s so sweet.” 🙂 🙂

“True love never fails or ends! “


Can’t a girl and boy be best friends forever?

Actually I have started writing this article after having a talk with one my friend on last night! Friend ???Oh! I’m sorry….! She is my best friend. :). Let me ask you a question before we flicks deep in to the topic. What is the exact difference between a friend and a best friend? I know, most of the answers that i would get will be just comparisons between these two. I mean something like, “A friend cares for one another and look out for each other. But a best friend is someone with who shares the strongest possibility of a friendship.” Since I’m not a eminent writer, not at all interested to share such sort of heavy definitions or impassive peremptory through my write ups. So better obviate it i guess. 😀

For me, the most apt difference between a friend and best friend is that additional word “best” in front of friend itself. :D. It’s not a joke!:) It does shows, that additional word “best” have gave some extra independent and unique meaning for the whole new word-“Best Friend”. Isn’t it??The word best shows, “superlative of good”!! :). So best friend can be defined as………………….??
Huh??Something went wrong with me! :/ .I won’t be able express it through these silly meanings. It’s really offish from me. 😦

Here are some examples showing the difference between a friend and best friend. It would be much better and easier for me to convey what actually I meant. Hope you’ll get it well.
*A friend will call your parents with their names, uncles, aunts or such sort of established ordered words.But a best friend will calls them as dad, mom, acha, amma and all.
*A friend knows only a few things about you. But a best friend could write a biography on your life story.
*A friend never seen you cry. But best friend won’t tell everyone else you cried, just laugh about it with you in private even in a worst situation.
*A friend asks to write your cell no. But a best friend would be well aware about your number on his/her own mind.
*You have to tell them to tell anyone for a friend. But in the case of a best friend, it’s reverse would happen. Means he/she already know, not to tell.

Have got much more examples. It will be boring to read all these examples since everyone of you knew about this well.Any additional explanations needed for the above whereabouts? No need, huh? Explanation is well defined in those examples itself.

Here it is…..I don’t know how many of you can have a punch-up response for this! Hope this must be the question i should ask you….:D
How far a best friend relationship can exist in between a boy and girl?

Friends for ever??
Whether they will get married later??

Confusion confusion…..! 😛

According to Shakespeare, “A boy and a girl can never be friends forever.”

Lincon said, “Best friend relationship between a boy and girl is the starting step for what we call Love.”

Wordsworth said, “Proposing a boy or girl for friendship is nothing but indirectly saying, I like you.”

Michael Jackson said, “If one can become your best friend, then he/she can easily become your life partner.”

Hey, I know you all were the most prominent personalities in all respects around the whole world. But it’s a matter of fact that I strongly disagree with all those mere quotes. I really mean it great gentle men’s! There is no need of telling any sorry for that opinion from me it seems. 😀

But still most of them (including parents, teachers and all) strongly agree with those quotes I know. Even at my own home! Parents will surely got doubted,when I’m supposed to attend a call from a girl friend.I’m damn sure about it because this is one among the recent topic at my home,where my mom usually scolds me at times. 😦

“I ain’t laughing at those who can’t accept a relationship like friendship in between a boy and girl.We are new generation beads! We are following the extreme way of living that you people followed at our age. Please try to understand that fact.”

Anyway,let me conclude with that supplicate!Before that,i must express my own verdict about the topic  you know?

“A girl and boy can be best friends forever”

That’s my verdict! 🙂 🙂 


Rahul Ashok